My high school sweetheart was raised strictly Catholic and was 'saving it for marriage. Now we regularly have anal, not every time we have sex because that really hurts your butt hole, but we throw it in there to keep things interesting and we both thoroughly enjoy it. The fucked up part is that I could sense it was actually important to him—like he would be measuring my affection in anal terms—so I bounced out of the relationship for good. Having the right angle of entry is important for me. This pleasures both the man and the woman as she knocks and knocks knocks knocks on his back door. Solo or with a female partner, using fingers or adding toys into the mix.
Letting Her Play With Your Backside
It is super intense, and your lover has to be extremely delicate and careful and be a good listener and super patient—and you as the receiver have to have a lot of trust in that.
Why More Straight Guys Should Be Playing With Their Butts
Do it on a dark towel — a butt sex towel! If he likes how this feels and is up for trying more anal action, gradually move your finger in deeper, taking care not to scratch the delicate tissue inside. Is it as good as an apple?